Thicker lashes

So I was just sitting down fiddling with my lashes,and before I knew it I had pulled like 4 out,what the hell is wrong with me,If it isnt enough that some always come out when taking off my mascara,I then make matters worse by fiddling with them : (

My lashes are not really thick and long,Id say that their medium length and thickness,But I make sure I coat them in vaseline every night just to keep them healthy

All I really want is longer thicker lashes,Maybe im asking too much

If anyone has any tips,or tricks on how I can achieve this,please let me know

: )